Happy Friday! Hope your week has been good? Mine’s been ok, but I’ve been letting my emotions get the better of me this week. You know how some people just bestow their opinions on you when they’re really not needed and you didn’t ask for them?
This week, I’ve had people I know and even some people I don’t know comment on: my child (how she isn’t sharing with others very well); my dog (how boisterous he is and how he’s got a lot to learn); my rented home (wouldn’t I like to change the decor?) and even my garden yard. I bumped into one of my neighbours yesterday when I was out walking my dog and he decided he had to tell me that I needed more space outside now that we’ve got a dog. I’m thinking about moving surely? What a great idea! I bet that wouldn’t be too expensive. We’ve got money to burn after all!
Ok, I’m being oversensitive of course, these people meant well with their opinions I’m sure. It just didn’t help that the neighbour who commented about the outdoor space has a lovely large 4 bed house with lawns a and gleaming white, freshly washed Audi on his drive. (Reining in the Green Eyed Monster as I type!)
Anyway, onwards and upwards. It’s the weekend! I’m not going to let those opinions bother me from now on in. As usual, I’ve been reading lots of personal finance blogs and these are my highlights from this week!
Natalie Alex from Debt and the Girl wrote an insightful post on 20 Truths You Learn In Your 20’s. These truths are good to read and reflect on no matter what age you are.
Girl Meets Debt is Finally Free From Credit Card Debt! On Friday 13th of all days. I find GMD’s blog inspirational anyway, so to read that she has cleared her consumer debt of $12,000 in just 9 months inspires and motivates me even more! And her message to Jeremy is soooooo sweet!
Grayson from Debt Roundup wrote a great guest post over at Modest Money about Securing Your WordPress Blog. I have to admit I didn’t give much thought beforehand to someone hacking into my blog. Grayson explains some helpful measures you can put in place to make sure your site is as secure as possible.
Matt from Mom and Dad Money wrote an interesting post on The Terrible Twos and Financial Responsibility. He compares the transitional stages of a toddler becoming more independent and that of embarking on a path to financial responsibility, both of which come with their own challenges.
I started this blog as a way to become accountable for my finances and also to have somewhere to let off steam about our debt situation. What I didn’t expect was just how much I would enjoy blogging! I look forward to evenings where I can write new stuff and network with like minded people in similar situations. I’m now feeling a lot more positive about our debt and I think this has really helped with our progress so far. Plus, there’s always the chance that I could turn this into a side hustle one day. Young Adult Money posted 5 Reasons Blogging is the Ultimate Side Hustle and I couldn’t agree more!
Enjoy!
Articles posted on my blog this week:
- 10 ways to reduce the cost of weddings without compromise.
- The Inevitable Journey to Debt Freedom. Guest Post by The Fiscal Flamingo
- How to survive buying gifts for others when paying back debt!
18 Comments
We all have bad weeks but like you said. Onwards and upwards! Debt repayment is a long journey and sometimes it gets emotionally draining but just remember you have people like me here cheering you on every step of the way! xo
Girl Meets Debt recently posted…Finally Free From Credit Card Debt!
Thanks GMD! Your support really means a lot to me! By Christmas (I hope), my consumer debt will be gone – like yours! I’ve had this since I was old enough to get into debt. That will be a milestone worth celebrating! xo
Thanks so much for the mention! Hope you have a more enjoyable weekend.
Matt Becker recently posted…The Terrible Twos and Financial Responsibility
Thanks Matt! 🙂 I thought yours was a really great post!
I really don’t like hearing people’s random opinions about my life, so I can relate. I hear a lot of parents talk about how raising children can turn into a competition – people can be so judgmental. I am glad you are feeling more positive about your debt, though! Don’t worry – I would also love to own an Audi (my boss has one) but that will never happen (more or less because it’s impractical). Have a great weekend!
E.M. recently posted…10 Ways to Prepare for a Flight
Thanks E.M. 🙂 Yeah some parents can be really competitive! But every child goes through each stage – the difficult and the good ones at different times. It all adds to their development. Have a great weekend too!
People will give their opinions whether you ask for them or not. It’s so annoying! Then they get defensive when you give them your two cents. I don’t get people sometimes, haha.
I hope you have a great weekend! 🙂
Lisa E. @ Lisa Vs. The Loans recently posted…Don’t Be a Complainy-pants
I never seem to pluck up the courage to give them my own two cents! Lol! 🙂 Have a great weekend too!
I’m sorry that the week didn’t fall your way, but there’s a new one right around the corner. I agree that unsolicited advice, while well intentioned, can bring us down. But as I post unsolicited financial advice at least twice a week, I probably can’t judge anyone too harshly. 😉
Here’s to a better weekend!
Done by Forty recently posted…Is it Moral to Let a Sucker Keep His Money?
Thank you! Your advice is all good and considerate anyway, so you shouldn’t worry! Plus, I’m sure most people want a budget like yours so your advice is well worth listening to! There’s a difference between helpful suggestive advice and patronising advice (which I was subject to last week!).
Isn’t that neighbor funny? Not really sure it’s his business how much space you have or need. We know someone who owns an Audi who longs for a Ferrari. Poor man! 😉
Hope you have a great weekend!
Tammy R recently posted…Cheated Out of a Pleasurable Conclusion
Thanks Tammy! That’s exactly I how felt – it wasn’t his business to check out my yard space and advise that I move house. Lol! Some people love their cars don’t they! 🙂
Damn people! Mind your business. It is very frustrating to get so much “helpful” advice. The only person who get as pass on this with me is my mom. She get’s a pass on offering helpful advice because she doesn’t care to filter her thoughts about my life…like most moms! I’ve just discovered your blog and am enjoying reading about your journey.
Hi Michelle, thanks so much for stopping by and for commenting! I can take advice from my mum too without any bad feeling whatsoever. It’s ok because it’s mum! But yeah, I often wonder why some people seem to want to hand out advice when it’s not asked for!
There are always going to be people out there telling you that you need to change, but as long as it’s right for you, that’s all that matters. Forget about those folks and have a great weekend!
Cash Rebel recently posted…Salary envy and unrealistic expectations
Thanks Cash Rebel! I’m feeling relaxed and ready for a new week!
Your week sounds a bit like mine – filled with overflowing emotions of yuckiness!!! But, as you said, “Onward and upward”! Have a wonderful week this coming week – life is good!
Laurie @thefrugalfarmer recently posted…A Lesson in Attitude and Great Reads for the Week Ending 9/13/13
Thanks Laurie! Sometimes I just need to step back and realise what’s important!