Welcome to another inspiring edition of Debt Success Stories! If you’re in debt and not sure where to start in paying it off, then this series can help you to begin.
You’ll need a compelling reason first and foremost to make you really want to start paying off your debt. Then you’ll need a LOT of motivation and commitment to stay the course. Arm yourself with knowledge about debt and personal finance along the way and you could have your own Debt Success Story before too long!
Today’s Debt Success Story is shared by Kalen Bruce who is the founder of MoneyMiniBlog. Kalen knows first hand what it’s like to be restricted by debt and he worked extremely hard to get rid of his debt so he and his family could be at ease with their finances.
Debt Success Story: An interview with Kalen
Q1: What was your debt total at its highest and what kind of debt did it consist of?
At it’s highest, I guess it was close to $150,000, but since then we were able to turn our old home into a rental property. I don’t include that in my personal debt now, because I actually earn income from it. My wife and I were basically $24,000 in debt. It was all stupid debt. Credit cards, car loans, the usual.
Q2: What made you decide to pay off your debt?
I honestly just got really angry. Really angry about being in debt and being average. I wanted to be better and do more with my life, but the debt was holding me back. Then I decided to fulfill my dream of joining the USAF and I realized that I couldn’t join with that much debt, so it was time to make a serious change. That’s when I became a student of personal finance.
Q3: What challenges did you encounter whilst paying off your debt?
Just about all of them. Financial issues, marital issues, family problems, unexpected expenses, emergencies…Murphy’s Law really came to be a reality. It wasn’t until after we had a fully funded emergency fund that we stopped having emergencies. Funny how that works.
Q4: How did you stay motivated in order to keep going with your debt repayments?
I had an end goal. It started as a goal to join the Air Force. Then I realized how interested I was in finances and I wanted to become a personal finance educator, but I knew I couldn’t teach finances while I was in debt. That wouldn’t make sense to me. I had to get my finances under control before I could help other people control their finances.
Q5: What was the biggest lifestyle change you had to make to succeed?
The biggest was probably our food choices. We were used to going out for dinner ALL THE TIME. It really sucked to have to start eating at home more. That’s where we spent a lot of money so that’s where we really needed to cut back. Overall, it was an entire lifestyle change though.
Q6: How did you get the money together to pay off your debt in the end?
At one point I was working 2 full-time jobs, 1 part-time job and running a paper route. That’s what it took for us to get out of $24,000 in debt in less than 2 years, not that I recommend working that hard. It was hard on my body and my family. Since we basically stopped spending money and started living on a strict budget (while earning as much money as we possibly could), it happened really fast for us. We just stayed disciplined and strict. Before we knew it, our debt was no longer.
Q7: What’s the best thing about being debt free?
Everything, but the number one thing is the feeling itself. It is a very freeing feeling to know that, if we wanted to, my wife and I could drop everything and do whatever we wanted. We are not bound by that financial situation anymore. We don’t have anything that is forcing us to earn money…well, except for the government since I am in the military. My point is that we are not under the bondage of debt and that is a much better feeling than I could have imagined. Plus, now it’s so easy to say no when I receive offers that will put us in debt. I know what it feels like and I am never going to feel like that again.
Q8: What advice would you give to others trying to become debt free?
The first step is to not get in any more debt. I see people all the time who are trying to get out of debt, then the next thing you know, they bought a new car and they have some great excuse for doing it. If you don’t get in any new debt, you will eventually pay off your existing debt, no matter how bad it is. I would also suggest reading as many articles and books as you can. Be a life-learner and always be willing to grow as a person. There are a lot of people out there who know more than you. Let them help you, but only take advice from the people who are where you want to be.
Author Bio: Kalen is the founder and main finance writer of MoneyMiniBlog.com. MoneyMiniBlog is full of short, entertaining, informative articles on personal finances. Kalen is a Christian, husband, father, Airman, writer, web designer, musician and an avid food connoisseur. You can follow Kalen on Twitter.
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Editor’s note: Thank you Kalen for sharing your inspiring Debt Success Story with us. The point about not getting into more debt is really good advice – I used to spend months trying to get out of debt and then go and get into debt for something I really needed, like new windows for my house for example. Looking back, the windows we had were just fine and this was something that could have waited until I had the money saved up. I spent ages paying that particular purchase off by the way!
Do you have a Debt Success Story to share? If so, I’d love to hear from you – please get in touch.
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24 Comments
I understand the concept of not taking on any more debt when trying to pay off all your debt (obviously), but I am still comtemplating getting a newer car at some point, which I will probably have to finance. I have put about $1,000 into my car in the last few weeks and there are more repairs that still need done that I’ve put off for now (not quite as essential, but still need done at some point). There is a line where I think it’s ok to trade off my car so it’s not a money pit sucking up the extra that could be going into my savings account or toward my debts.
Thanks for sharing your perspective with us. I can’t imagine working 2 FT and 1 PT and a paper route all at the same time. I work 1 FT and 3 PT jobs at the moment and it’s CRAZY!
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Hey Kayla!
I understand wanting to get a newer car to avoid putting so much money into it. My wife and I went through that too. Just make sure you don’t make our mistake of buying way more car than you need/can afford. If you have to finance, you can’t afford it…but….I know sometimes it can make sense to some people to finance. As long as you buy a fairly priced car in good condition, then it should be fine. If you have to finance, I would try to stay under the $10,000 range. That’s simply because you will already be going into more debt by financing, so you don’t want to make it much worse. Also, don’t fall into the trap of thinking that since you spend $1,000 here and $1,000 there, it’s ok to buy a $20,000 car. In that case you would have spent thousands less by just paying for repairs. I recently wrote an article about the car purchase we just made here: http://moneyminiblog.com/save-money/haggling-hacks-buying-used-car/
I will check that out. Thanks for sharing your thought process on this topic! I’ve been thinking and running numbers and contemplating this for a few months now. I don’t think I’ll make any type of decision until probably next year.
Kayla @ Shoeaholicnomore recently posted…Thing Thursday 6/12/2014
You’re welcome! That’s wise to take your time.
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Nice job Kalen! I’m sure it wasn’t easy holding down two full time jobs but you did it. Hopefully this will inspire others!
Tonya@Budget and the Beach recently posted…A Slippery Slope
Thanks Tonya! It wasn’t easy, but it was worth it! 🙂
You have some work ethic and determination! Debt can be a crazy cycle. I watched my parents try and save, only for an emergency to come and wipe their progress out. My mom was determined, though, and would immediately start saving again, even though their debt had increased. I can’t imagine how hard it is to keep picking yourself up after that, but it’s so important!
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Hey E.M.!
I’m sure that would be hard. As soon as we got serious, the obstacles started coming. Perseverance was so important, but it wasn’t always easy.
I am so impressed by your motivation working all those extra jobs. Whilst I desperately want to clear my debt I can’t ( and don’t) want to be working any more hours than I already do. I agree about not accruing anymore debt. In the past I have cleared some credit cards (I’ve never been debt free since 18 – now 31) but that didn’t stop me accruing more debt. This time though I have changed and other than mortgage debt, do not intend on accruing any more debt ever again.
I love a debt free story – so inspiring.
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Hey Victoria!
Thanks so much! I understand not being able to or wanting to work more. If I could do it again, I don’t know that I would have worked quite so much. Of course, then I only had 1 child so it was different. Now I have 4. It sounds like if you keep going the right direction, you will be debt free and stay that way!
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Good job Kalen, such a big achievement if you totally paid off all your debt! I just have a debt a few days ago and I’m going to pay within 24 months, but me and my hubs are planning to pay it earlier. Right now, I’m more focused on my work and also my hub is trying to look for sideline job
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Hey Hannah!
That’s awesome that you’re almost there! Congrats to you guys!
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I love debt success stories. Great Job Kalen! I was able to pay off $14K last year but still have about $8K in student loans to go.
What made me work so hard to pay off my debts were stories like this. It shows that if you can do it, why can’t I?
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Hey Aldo!
I love your attitude! You’re right, you can do it!
Kalen @ MoneyMiniBlog recently posted…How to Improve Your Credit Score (No Matter What It Is Now)
Wait, does the air force not accept you if you have a certain amount of debt??
So awesome that you did it! And way to turn a negative into a positive with that house!
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My anger at my debt definitely got me on the road to debt payoff! Nothing like some good ol’ anger to motivate you.
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Great story Kalen and thnaks for sharing it with us all!
I really admire the fact that you worked really hard at paying down your debt and I had a little chuckle when you listed Paper Route as one of the avenues of extra income. I wrote a post a while back that included having a paper route as a means of generating extra income as an adult and glad to see there are more folks out there doing just that! Very cool 🙂
Thanks again for sharing and thanks Hayley for this awesome series!
Take care and my best to all.
Lyle
lyle @ the Joy of Simple recently posted…How Much Is Your Job Costing You And What Can You Do About It?
Thank you Lyle! 🙂
It seems like with all debt repayment stories, that eating out and changing eating habits seems to make a major dent.
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