If you’re up to your neck in debt, facing a job loss would probably have serious consequences, whether you’re currently single with no dependents or if you have a family to support.
You’d surely have all your important bills to pay still like your mortgage or rent, food and other living costs, as well as the minimum repayments to your creditors.
You may know that the hubby and I have been in debt seriously twice. The first time was back in 2003 and the second time was when our daughter was born (right through to the present day). Today I want to share with you a bit more about how our debt turned bad the first time around and the knock on affect this had on our lives.
A job loss meant losing half our income
My hubby faced job loss three months after we moved into our first home. He worked (and still works) in a very niche industry and as such jobs like his were hard to come by. We had a lot of credit card and loan debt even back then (around £35K) which needed to be paid every month along with our new mortgage.
I can tell you that my hubby losing his job was the second scariest moment in my life regarding our debts (feel free to read the rock bottom section of my debt story for scary moment no.1).
Of course, we couldn’t pay all our bills and something had to give. We had to prioritise and keep a roof over our heads so that meant not being able to make the unsecured debt payments. The overdraft ended up completely maxed out at £5K and we started to default on our other minimum payments.
My hubby lost his job just before Christmas that year and we went to see our Bank Manager on Boxing Day to ask for some advice and hopefully to get an overdraft extension to see us through until my hubby sorted out a new job.
Our Bank Manager told us there was nothing they could do and advised us to go bankrupt because of the amount of debt that we had. (In hindsight this was really bad advice because we did have other options). We left the bank in total silence and the fear and terror that I felt at that moment was absolutely sickening.
We didn’t go bankrupt and we got through that awful time with the support of our friends and family who were really understanding about what was happening to us.
A race against time to get another job
As I said before, my hubby works in a niche industry and is highly trained in one specific field. There are literally only a handful of jobs like his in England. They tend to come about by the contacts you’re in touch with and usually only if you’ve been recommended.
After searching for jobs in his industry to no avail, my hubby set about applying for every job that he thought he could do. He tried a few stop gap jobs like delivering cars around England and then hitch-hiking back home again until he landed a job in a similar industry at half his old salary. We were so relieved when he’d found work.
It was a humbling experience
I remember having to take the Christmas presents back that we’d bought all our family and friends and having to tell them what happened. My hubby’s parents helped us clear the overdraft and we set up a savings account to pay them back.
My wonderful parents brought us bags of food from the supermarket for a couple of months so we could at least eat whilst my hubby went out every day looking for a job. I carried on pretending everything was fine at work. The whole experience was traumatic, humbling, embarrassing and something I keep locked away at the back of my mind most of the time.
If we had treated our debts with caution and tried to pay off more debt before we bought our first house then things would have been a lot different. We probably would have been more prepared in the event of a job loss and able to cope financially. At that time we needed all of both of our incomes to make ends meet.
What about your debts and your job?
There are some things you can do to help yourself if you can’t cope with your debts after a job loss. The Money Advice Service here in the UK has some pointers on how to deal with debt affairs if you end up losing your job. One thing not to do is borrow more money to try to survive your job crisis. That will only make your situation worse in the long run.
Even if you aren’t facing job loss now, if you have debts, you should think about what the impact would be on your life if you were to lose your job in the future. Job loss can happen just like that – through redundancy, illness or even through being fired.
Getting fired from your job doesn’t just happen to people who are too lazy to work properly or those that just can’t do the job right. I know a few highly skilled and professional (ex) work colleagues from my old job who were actually fired for seemingly insignificant things like surfing the internet at work or coming in late one too many times.
The safest thing to do is to not put yourself in a position where you need your job to pay your living costs and your debts too. Your debts could be the straw that breaks the camel’s back when life deals you a bad hand.
Do you rely on the income from your job more than you want to?
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My father lost his job that really made an impact to our living. It was really difficult and affected his relationship with my mom. God moved one day in mysterious way when my mother just selflessly accepted everything and talked to my dad seriously. From then on, their perspective had changed until they got back on track. We also had a humbling experience when many people even we weren’t close with and the least we expected backed us up.
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I’m so glad your parents managed to get their relationship and their finances back on track. I can imagine that must have been really tough for the whole family.
Great post! One of the main reason we wanted to clean up our debt was they fact that we were living paycheck to paycheck, loss of a job would be catastrophic. Now having our finances in better shape and building an e-fund gives us better peace of mind each and every day.
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Thanks Brian! I know how that feels living paycheck to paycheck and it’s definitely not a great place to be in. Well done for getting your finances in better shape!
I have close to 3-months worth of expenses saved up in case I lose my job. I would have to find a job within that time frame, but I wouldn’t be desperately looking for a job. Having an emergency fund really helps.
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That’s great Aldo! Are you following Dave Ramsey’s plan (I think he says to aim for 6 months expenses). I’d like 3 months worth of expenses to be our next goal once we’re debt free.
I think this is why a big emergency fund has become incredibly important to me. I don’t face a job loss right now, but I do have months of very slow work, like right now, and I would be terrified if I didn’t have a back up plan. It can be twice as scary with debt. This is cliche, but plan for the worst and hope for the best!
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Freelancing work can be up and down when it comes to getting jobs in, so having a large emergency fund is a great idea just in case. By the way, I’m sure work will pick up for you soon Tonya!
I do rely on my job’s income. I have less than $1k in my EF and I have just under $18k in consumer debts and student loans, not to mention my house mortgage. If I lost my job I don’t know what I’d do. I think I’d try to find anything available immediately that could help pay the bills and I’d have to ramp up my efforts at side income, as the place I currently work pays the best salaries in the area in which I live. Working anywhere besides my current employer would mean a HUGE cut in pay, which is scary to think about and part of the reason I’m working to clear my debts and increase my savings.
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The great thing is that you’ve already considered the impact of losing your job and are doing something about it. We didn’t even think about what would happen or prepare for the worst case scenario until it was too late. You’re doing great Kayla!
We’ve been dealing with the consequences of my husband’s job loss since he was initially laid off in 1997. Now we could have handled it a lot better and probably would be close to debt free today if we had. Now we have a big emergency fund of 7 months of expenses, partially to deal with his variability income.
It’s great that you had a supportive family and that you could be open and honest with them.
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Ouch – that must have been really tough for you all when your husband lost his job all that time ago. 7 months worth of expenses is a great safety net Debs, well done for persevering and saving up such a large amount for your EF!
What a great story. I’m glad you guys overcame the struggles of him losing his job. When my wife and I were in debt, we worked so many jobs that losing one would have just meant going out and getting another.
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Your debt success story really inspired me Kalen because you and your wife did whatever it took to get those debts paid off!
Wow I can’t even begin to imagine how much that situation must have sucked. I can well imagine you walking out of the bank in silence.
I, for one, am still 90%+ reliant on my job for income. I have a few bits and pieces going on outside of that but generally speaking I too would be under pressure if I lost my job.
I have savings – so I could survive a while – but the fact is that burning through savings would make me feel like I was going backwards financially.
Glad to hear things are getting sorted out – and kudos for your brutal honesty about the situation!
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Thanks Rich – it was a very low point in our lives. You’d think things wouldn’t get any worse than that but they did! We can actually just about manage now on my husband’s income – it would be a struggle so I don’t even want to think about going there, but we’d survive. If he lost his job though, things would be different. So I need to ramp up my income even more! (Working on that).
I know you’re staying in your job to make things a lot easy for yourself financially in the near future – hats off to you for doing that – many people would take the easy route.
I have a fixed term job, I know it is ending soon so it is scary. I can never make up my mind whether to pay off debt or save. My boyfriend though has decided I should try and pay off what I can, he can afford the rent for a few months if I can’t find another role quickly but I really don’t want to be in that situation.
It’s a tricky one, I think I’d have to agree with your boyfriend though – debt when you haven’t got a job is more of a burden financially because your boyfriend will be able to help out with the rent should the worst happen. Is there any chance of getting a job in the same company i.e. transferring to another role? That way you might be able to get something sooner than you’d hope.
Some great resources here. We faced the possibility of DOUBLE job loss in 2008. My husband was laid off and I was on a 6 month contract that was at risk of not being renewed. We were prepared for one of us not working but the thought of both of us with no income was scary… we survived and learned a lot in the process.
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Hi May, wow that must have been a scary time for you both. Double job loss is as bad as it gets. Well done on planning ahead just in case!
This is such a critical topic — I’m glad you’re covering it.
When my husband and I purchased our home, one of our criteria was that we be able to afford it on one income. It didn’t matter how much the bank and realtor told us we could afford — we wanted the peace of mind that comes with not being house-poor.
I work in high-tech where jobs come and go — our first financial goal after paying off the cars was to get enough funds set aside to cover 6 months’ expenses in case one of us lost our job. Knowing we had that cushion has allowed me to take a number of worthwhile risks with my career. I can’t emphasize enough how important that emergency fund has been for us.
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Thanks for commenting Jean – I think being able to afford a home on just one income is an excellent idea – and definitely something that we’ll doing in the future. Sounds like you and your husband have got things sorted! We have a small emergency fund right now but I want to make sure it’s increased once we’re debt free. Even having a little emergency fund has been such as relief.